Keep Tabs On Your Children - Use Mobile Spying Software To Find Out If They Are Using Drugs By Sharon Penzie Article Word Count: 288

Are your children acting funny and out of character? Are they hiding things from you that you want to know about? Maybe they are closing their doors a lot more than usual? As a parent, you have to know what is going on with your children. You have to keep tabs on their moods and actions at all times in order to protect them the way that you need to.

I had an issue with my son having some strange mood swings. These lead me to believe that he was using drugs or maybe had a relationship with someone who may have been causing him grief. After countless conversations, I had thrown my hands up. My friend recommended that I install some mobile tracking software on his phone. At first, I felt like I was invading his privacy. By the end of that thought, I realized that I am the one paying the bill and I needed to know what was happening.

· After installing the software, it gave me:

· His location at all times

· All the calls he was making

· The most important one of all, his text messages.

After monitoring his activity for about a week, I was able to find out that my son was using prescription pills. I was able to find out who the monster was that was selling to my son and contacted the authorities. I cannot tell you how relieved I am to tell you that my son is fine now and I am still able to stay one step ahead of him through the use of this mobile spy software. Please take my story and allow it to push you to find out exactly what is going on with your children.

If you are suspicious of your child, visit the Cell Phone Spy site to see what I used. This mobile monitoring technology revealed the truth about my son. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Sharon_Penzie

Getting Over Parental Guilt By Steve Wickham

Have you ever woken to find a text message from your early-adult daughter or son needing that ride home they organised tentatively with you earlier? - the trouble being, the ride was needed six hours ago! One reality quickly opens the mind to a new fear. How did they get home? You fumble with your phone and call every number they have: theirs, their partner's; the home phone... no answer. Getting quite frantic at this stage, you decide to pray.

There is a common explanation for this. Human short term memory is fallible. It's not just people who smoke a lot of marijuana that this happens to. We all forget things.

But the parent's job is to not forget, right?

Wrong - we'll all forget. Perhaps the key is to use a reminder tool so we don't forget as much, but it's a fact of psychological science - within a field called "human factors" - that we make what we might term "the stupidest" mistakes. We always will.

So, we'll need to forgive... ourselves.

Factors for Forgiveness

Forgiving ourselves is always made easier if the son or daughter we've let down is forgiving. If they're not, it will make it harder to forgive ourselves - or perhaps not harder; the process will most likely take longer.

Forgiving ourselves is a process of ensuring that our sound minds are informing our wanderingly scared hearts-and it's a process that often needs to be repeated for days, weeks, months, or at times longer, before it sits and our guilt feelings are eased.

Our sound minds can restore our ailing hearts - and quell our troublesome recurrent thought patterns - by simply acknowledging the truth: we are fallible. We make mistakes.

Perhaps there is no better focus than to simply be gentle with ourselves in the light of our human fallibility, accepting that we will continue making mistakes despite our very best of intentions.

Copyright (c) 2010 S. J. Wickham.

Steve Wickham is a Registered Safety Practitioner (BSc, FSIA, RSP[Australia]) and a qualified, unordained Christian minister (GradDipBib&Min). His blogs are at:http://epitemnein-epitomic.blogspot.com/ and http://tribework.blogspot.com/ Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Steve_Wickham